As for MB's thoughts on kids and sex stuff. I think it will depend on how they ask questions as to how I go about talking to them, but I do know I want to be open with them. I feel the more communication, the better educated they will be and I will be happy that they know they can talk to me about it. I think they need to know the real names for things otherwise I have a vision of AM in college talking like the waterboy "momma says I have a hoohoo". Haha, sorry, funny picture of AM like Adam Sandler in my head! Anyway, AM still sees me naked, unfortunately I do not like my body and I still get self conscious in front of my toddler. However, it will stop when she stops needing me all the time (ahhh to pee alone again...I can only imagine!). As for the boy, I am thinking things will be a little different. AM does not see C naked, I'm sure the boy will see him more than he would see me. Anyway, I just hope for an open communication between us and our kids. That way I can be confident they will come to us, not be ashamed, and hopefully grow into confident and educated adults and be smart about their bodies and their selves and their lives as a whole.